As my book nears its completion (yup almost there, really, I’m pretty sure). I thought I would add some excerpts to spark your interest or perhaps amuse you.
“Instantly Outnumbered”(excerpt from Barbies in the Horse Bin, Living Better with Organized Children)
I knew that I was having twins by my 12th week of pregnancy. I did not know that I had two babies to care for until they were wheeled into the recovery room, side by side, in one bassinet. They were just lying there, two hats, two blankets, two babies.
My memory of this moment is one of the most vivid of my life. I took a deep breath and apparently said aloud, “there are two of them”. At this point the nurse looked at me with sheer amazement and asked, “Didn’t you know you were having twins?” As I recovered from the initial shock of seeing two babies, together, I replied, “Yes, yes I knew I was having twins, I just didn’t KNOW I was having twins.”
And so it begins, my new normal, instantly outnumbered by babies, forever changed and yet forever blessed. While I had always considered myself to be a relatively organized person, this new normal would challenge everything I thought I knew about being organized. I was instantly out-numbered, counting the two year old sister, there were three babies, all in diapers!
When people saw us coming, triple carriage and all, the most frequent comment I received was “Oh, God bless you.” My response was always the same, “He already has.” The twins will be 14 next week and together we have learned to live better everyday. My mantra when they were young was: “You will never miss out on anything just because you are twins, we will make it happen.” So far so good since we became instantly outnumbered!